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#171 Re: The Garden » 2016 Presidential Election Thread » 471 weeks ago
I am with James and Buzz that it is getting a little out of control. I mean there have been gays and trans genders for a long ass time. Why all this shit is getting so much attention now is a little absurd. All this discussion is a bit silly when we have many bigger problems going on.
Sounds like you're actually on the left on this one: congress (state or federal) should be spending their time on important things, not coming up with stupid-ass bathroom rules.
#172 Re: The Garden » 2016 Presidential Election Thread » 471 weeks ago
Actually that's exactly what it does. Society gets to choose what is acceptable otherwise there would be no laws. For example killing someone could be completely comfortable for someone. Does that mean they can do it when they want to?
Bad example, killing someone singles out a specific person and does a bit more than just "hurt their feelings". James' niece necking with another girl has zero real impact on him.
Or in a more relevant comparison a perv can go into a woman's bathroom and claim to identify as a woman and that's okay as long as they don't assault someone?
Lesbians can do that today... what's the difference?
It's fine to make the women uncomfortable in that case to protect the small amount of transgender people? It's not ok to make a transgender person uncomfortable by giving them a separate bathroom to use but it's okay to make everyone else uncomfortable so they aren't?
It's not about protecting a specific group, it's about not forcing ones own morality upon the rest of society. What I'm saying is that I don't necessarily care any more or less about transgenders than I do about other people, and I don't care if either of those get offended. But neither should be protected from being offended by the law because that would limit everyones freedom of expression. Society's norms change over time because we have the freedom to challenge the status quo, and that's a good thing, and I will argue in favor of it every single time.
#173 Re: The Garden » 2016 Presidential Election Thread » 471 weeks ago
Here's what I struggle with: why is it okay to put one group into a situation where they are uncomfortable to take another group out of a situation where they are uncomfortable? Why do we automatically (and unfairly) label people as bigots and/or racists if they have a different opinion than you do?
Because 'not having to feel uncomfortable' is not an inalienable right, having the freedom to express yourself is. I feel uncomfortable around people that wear bolo ties and cowboy hats, still no reason to ban them.
*edit* and for the record, I am not calling anyone racist or bigoted, I really do understand that feeling uncomfortable with certain things is a perfectly acceptable and natural reaction. It just doesn't give you the right to stop other people from doing what they want to do.
#174 Re: The Sunset Strip » The Video Game Console Thread » 471 weeks ago
Detriot: Become Human
Death Stranding
Resident Evil 7 with VR support
That's all I needed to hear from Sony to bring an ear-to-ear grin on my face...
#175 Re: The Garden » 2016 Presidential Election Thread » 471 weeks ago
Since you support certain things on the fringe going mainstream, may I ask where you draw the line? When society has reached a point that boys are wearing dresses, "genderfluid", etc. it is not blurring the line...it's erasing it. Once the line is erased, what's next on tap? Is it not the "land of the free" to you until literally anyone can do literally anything?
The definition of mainstream always changes over time, and it always irks some people when it does. Lots of things that were shocking 30 years ago are absolutely completely normal today. You can debate on whether or not those change are for the better, but that debate is always going to be subjective. So no, I don't think there's a hard line that persists throughout time, there's only a line (and a fuzzy one at that) that defines what is currently acceptable. The only objective metric I can think of is that you're free to do whatever you want, as long as it doesn't impact anyone who's unwilling to participate. In other words rape will always be objectively bad, but consenting sodomy is not.
I don't have children but people worrying about the safety of their children isn't a "straw man".
Worrying about the safety of your children isn't a straw man, but saying that one of the problems of gender fluidity is that you can't know whether a person using the bathroom with your 12 year old daughter is a man or woman is the very definition of a straw man. The argument is designed to distract you away from the fact that even today you can't tell sexual orientation by looks, and it has always been that way. I wouldn't have wanted Michael Jackson in a boy's bathroom knowing his tendencies, but I wouldn't generalize that into a law that forbids male pop singers with high pitched voices from using the men's room either.
Pedophiles are always a problem, no matter which gender they are or look like.
I never said they weren't.
Boy, talk about a straw man...
I know you didn't, I was trying to get ahead of you in the discussion and I shouldn't have put words in your mouth. I apologize for that. But the 'bathroom' argument is the most popular argument used to defend the discriminatory legislation they're trying to put in place in certain states and I assumed that's what you were referring to when you mentioned 'bathroom problems' in your original post. I shouldn't have assumed .
But you still haven't raised a single real issue that arises from giving transgenders the freedom to use the bathroom of their choice. The only thing you've raised is that it bothers you that they're doing it "in your face" and that your aunt now wears cheeky T-shirts with social justice warrior slogans on them. Is that really reason enough for you to limit these people's rights? I get that you don't like it, I wouldn't either. I do not get why that should be a factor in deciding where they can take a piss though.
Look, I'm against positive discrimination, I feel strongly that the whole third wave feminism movement, the atheist-plus movement, the black lives matter movement, etc... are extremely counter productive as well as sexist, racist and bigoted. I mock them, I revile their rhetoric and I think they're doing real damage to our society. I also think that they should have the utter and complete freedom to feel, think and say what they like. No matter how distasteful I might think it is, they have the right to offend me.
Look at it from a different angle. I think most would agree that the nazi school of thought is one of the most dangerous in the world, and yet holocaust denial is not illegal in the US. I'm sure we'll all agree that a lot of people are offended and concerned by those thoughts and the way these people dress; and probably won't feel safe if they end up in the same bathroom with a bunch of skinheads. Yet, there are no laws against piercings, shaving your head, getting swastika tattoos and dressing up in Nazi uniforms. That's what the "land of the free" is supposed to be about, yet somehow when it comes to people's private parts or their sex lives half the country feels like this shit needs to be regulated, their freedom of speech and self-expression limited? That makes absolutely no sense to me.
#176 Re: The Garden » 2016 Presidential Election Thread » 471 weeks ago
This gay marriage issue was forced on the American people and mainstreamed and now look what its led to....little boys thinking they're girls and wearing dresses to school(and vice versa)....and now the latest issue with trannies and bathrooms.
Those initially against gay marriage here predicted it would lead to much bigger problems in society. Guess what? We were right.
Look to what it led? How are any of the things you listed here problems? How in god's name does anyone get to decide how someone gets to dress, how the hell does anyone get to decide which gender someone associates with? And how the fuck does any of that impact you or anyone else? Don't give me that bullshit "I want my daughters to be safe" line either, that has got to be the biggest straw man this side of burning man. Pedophiles are always a problem, no matter which gender they are or look like. Which bathrooms do you suggest gay people use then?
Fuck... Land of the Free my ass...
Though I disagree with a lot of it, I can at least respect your opinions on the economical issues, how you support the poor and middle class is not a hard science and opinions on that will inevitably differ. But what people do in the bedroom or bathroom, or how they choose to dress is their decision, no one should commandeer themselves the right to police the personal freedoms of their fellow men.
#177 Re: Guns N' Roses » Axl at the Chinese Exchange » 472 weeks ago
I'd really like to hear an Axl Rose film score, though I have no idea what form it'd take. Something like Trent Reznor's soundtrack work? Something lush and orchestral?
If I were to guess, I'd say it'd be in the same vein as Madagascar, or the intro to TWAT... so likely orchestral.
#178 Re: Guns N' Roses » Axl vs Google/the internet » 472 weeks ago
I don't understand how people can say he's making the right move. This is a monumentally stupid thing to do: there is no way you can scrub the internet of a photo like that and you're just drawing attention to something you don't want people to see. It's internet 101 in a way, what goes onto the internet can't be taken off. And just the idea of whining that someone is being mean to him on the internet... oh woe is me!
Hell, there's even a name for what he'll run into: the Streisand Effect (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streisand_effect).
I get it, I wouldn't be happy either if I was the butt of a joke like that, but it's just dumb to think any good will come out of fighting this. Grow up, and man up, and people will move on. And like chad4bama says, shut these trolls up by getting fit instead.
#179 Re: Guns N' Roses » Axl Rose joins AC/DC » 472 weeks ago
However if Brian is fit to return then Axl can step aside as the conquering stand in. Probably with a lot more kudos among AC/DC fans and the rock community in general. It won't look as good if he replaces Brian full time and Brian's still claiming he's fit to continue. Then he becomes the guy that ousted Brian Johnson, not stood in for him.
This is the important bit, right here. If Brian continues to claim he's still fit to perform, Axl will have to do the smart thing and step back.
#180 Re: The Garden » 2016 Presidential Election Thread » 472 weeks ago
TheMole wrote:Smoking Guns wrote:Wasn't a very strong disavow....
Perhaps, but it's still miles and miles better than actually calling for violence, like Trump does.
I agree, but the Trump people haven't been very violent at all, especially compared to these protesters.
That's a fair point. But you're not voting for the protesters, you're voting for the candidate. I don't care too much about the temperament of some random yokels at a rally (I'll be the first to condemn any violence of any kind), I care very much about the temperament of the future president of the nation.