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#201 Re: Guns N' Roses » Lars Comments on "Better" Video » 856 weeks ago

No, I usually don't give a damn anymore as seen from my inconsistent posting patterns at this site.  Actually, I believe I have more posts today, than all other times combined, since it changed to this from Roses of Velvet.

I lost interest and check in every once a while.  Today is your lucky day, I guess. smile

When Axl came to the message boards, and said the Better video was coming out, it gave me hope.  Now, here we are with another delay regarding an Axl Rose project.  I'm not angry for myself, as this ship sailed long ago.
I'm angry for the people who still try to defend him. The truth will come out, just like it has many times before, but just because it isn't coming from Axl it isn't considered the truth.

I far as me being irrelevant, I think I helped Axl NOT sell some curiousity CD's that he would have.

I'm sure someone else can find some quotes somewhere in Chinese Whispers from Axl or the Axl camp discussing how mindblowing this material is.

The advance he received from Best Buy had implications that this music was not only supposed to relevant, but successful.  If he just took the money from Best Buy to cover his debt, where is this "integrity" that I keep hearing about?

If he didn't think he was relevant, why the false hype and ensuing breakdown into chaos everytime?

I won't be looking up quotes for you because I talk really far out of my ass, and it's hard to sit on my ass, and talk out of it, or is it that I disagree and don't have room for blind idolatry?

Your delusions and fantasies to control me won't make them true, sorry. (Wait, where did we hear that before?)

You can get your giant "AXL #1" foam finger out and have it ready to show to Axl when he plays the local chili con carnival, and you are the only one who still shows up.

#202 Re: Guns N' Roses » Lars Comments on "Better" Video » 856 weeks ago

madagas wrote:

Dexter wrote:
I don't work for you. Just cuz u think so don't make it true.

Dexter wrote:
Why would anyone have to tell me anything? What would you know of  anything actually going on in my world. Nice fantasy though, wish I had  the time.

Dexter wrote:
Your misconceptions and fantasies along with your misguided sense  of entitlement don't dictate my actions.


Skippy, of course Axl has a Borderline Personality, as millions upon millions of other people do, but, this doesn't sound like a guy who cares what you think or cares if you buy his cd's or not.

The duality of the Guns situation has always been that Axl is allowed to be himself, and do whatever he wants.  People will choose to defend him if they want for his fascist behavior, but whatever, to each his own.

Others in his circle are not afforded that luxury.

First of all,  if Axl worked for me, he'd have been fired a long, long time ago.

I don't have misconceptions or fantasies of him doing anything.  The misconception he has is that he is relevant both musically and professionally.   And that his fans who are now adults will put up with his current behavior.

Why would anyone tell him anything?  I wouldn't tell him anything, except you get no more money, and it's not because I want to dictate his actions.  I don't give up a fuck what he does.  I choose to spend my time (except today) paying attention to relevant artists who communicate with their fans. 

Honestly, I'm not even the slightest bit angry at him usually, he's like a random homeless man, harmless, insignificant.

I started reading this thread, and it made me slightly sick to think of all the people this guy hurts.

Btw, I believe Axl talks about being a borderline and all his indulgent therapy in Interview magazine from the early 90's.

#205 Re: Guns N' Roses » Lars Comments on "Better" Video » 856 weeks ago

Here's a concrete example of cause and effect with Axl.

Because he behaves like an ass, I don't buy his CD.

Because people know me as the Guns and Roses guy, when people ask me about it, if it's as good as the old stuff, I tell them "No", it sucks and not to waste their money.

Because he can't show up on stage on time, I won't buy tickets anymore.

Because Axl can't play well with others, there has been an endless string of increasingly less talented musicians willing to collaborate with him.

As far as providing concrete examples of why I think Axl has huge borderline personality issues, read up on it, work with it for years, educate yourself, and then look at the history of decisions made by Axl AND the faulty reasoning he has given for his bad decisions.
If you can't do that, go to a strip bar, and talk to the older girls who work there, and listen to their stories, it's all the same thing.

#206 Re: Guns N' Roses » Lars Comments on "Better" Video » 856 weeks ago

DCK wrote:

His behavior is out there and is open to interpretation. It's my interpretation of his behavior, not his thoughts.

Then you would know that your interpretation isn't worth anything.

I'm well beyond being a psychology major, and I've worked in-patient acute care psychiatric trauma units for 15 years.  Where we didn't listen to anything the patients said, WE WATCHED WHAT THEY DID.  Any asshole can and will say anything.  That's why you watch what people do.  Period.

Well I could tell you that when I worked with children for example, I saw several cases where specialists came and observed the case in question in a closed room with absolutely no outside interference. In order to see the actual behavior symptoms of the child, that's what was needed.

My bet on it is just as valid as yours in this case, since none of them actually touches into the subject of Axl Rose, which in all honesty, you know nothing about.

Slash said it the best, it's ok for him to talk shit about Axl Rose, because he knew the guy and could say all he wanted. Quite frankly, he's right. He knew him back in the day, he could speak up. Those who did not, and do not know him, should out of respect keep their noses out of things they know nothing about.

Who knows Axl Rose? His close friends and his family. That's it. They can judge him, they can speak of him and they can have an opinion about him. Sometimes those opinions are that he's a downright asshole. Other opinions state he's a very friendly and warm human being who cares deeply for both his friends and family.

And that leaves people like you and me skippy who doesn't know the man and should clearly not speak of things we know nothing about. I'm quite bored with armchair experts in front of a computer. Aren't you?

Wow, where to start.

Hmmm...

As a public figure, his behavior will be dissected.  When he plays the recluse, all we are left with are the very public actions.

Do I know him? No.

Where there's smoke, there's fire, and the stench of the smoke is strong.
He exhibits very strong Axis II traits, that cannot be denied.

Hey, if your saying you don't like my interpretation, that's cool.
It is as valid as your interpretation that we shouldn't be interpretting.:)
I may not like everything you or anyone else says at one time.

All of this would be mute, and you and I wouldn't have an armchair analysis going on, and I wouldn't have time to think about this in a professional sense, if Axl would just do something right, ya know, like pay some sort of attention to the CD that he just dropped.

My "interpretation" of this is that he is going to disappear again, and when he reappears, he will blame other people for a failure that is all his to own.

I wonder what the Vegas odds are on that?

#207 Re: Guns N' Roses » Lars Comments on "Better" Video » 856 weeks ago

You know, I'm not trying to psychoanalyze the guy.

His behavior is out there and is open to interpretation. It's my interpretation of his behavior, not his thoughts.

I'm well beyond being a psychology major, and I've worked in-patient acute care psychiatric trauma units for 15 years.  Where we didn't listen to anything the patients said, WE WATCHED WHAT THEY DID.  Any asshole can and will say anything.  That's why you watch what people do.  Period.

Bi-polar disorder and borderline personality are disorders that often occur together.  I'm surprised a "psychology major" hadn't figured that one out yet.

If I was talking out of my ass I would be defending his behavior, which has no defense.

Could I be wrong?  Sure, I'm not perfect, but I've seen his behavior before somewhere, and it's usually with adolescent and post adolescent females.

Axl has completely lost me.   I can't even say the music is great, so it's worth putting up with anymore.

#208 Re: Guns N' Roses » Lars Comments on "Better" Video » 856 weeks ago

I'm not his qualified shrink...

#209 Re: Guns N' Roses » Lars Comments on "Better" Video » 856 weeks ago

You know what, I'm a dick.

I'm taking a break from this, sorry for being so harsh.

Really fed up.

Out, again, I'm sorry.

#210 Re: Guns N' Roses » Lars Comments on "Better" Video » 856 weeks ago

Sorry, I don't buy the "truth lies in the middle" anymore.

Do I know what's going on in his mind?  No.  But he has in the past been shown to be extremely paranoid, overly sensitive, irrational, irresponsible about showing up on stage on-time, has trouble maintaining relationships, and has trouble accepting any side but his own in any argument. He has said and presented one thing, and then gone ahead and ddone another.  Hell, even during the heyday of the Illusions, guy was uncomfortable in his own skin, and started doing his best 70's Rock God impersonation.

One of the most blantantly cognitively dissonant Axl moments is/was him blatantly ripping off stage poses from Freddy Mercury while wearing a "Kill Your Idol" Bukowski shirt.

That's why he has had all these different therapists, from crystal crap in Sedona to all the other stuff dumb shit we saw in the videos from Use Your Illusion.  He's uncomfortable being himself, because believe it or not, he probably hates being a whiny little bitch too.  The second anyone has challenged either personally or professionally, they are gone.

For christ sakes, the rebirth bullshit of the "Don't Cry" video is straight out of the now debunked bullshit "attachment disorder rebirthing" craze of the early nineties.

Axl should deal with the shit that is fucking up each and every singular aspect of his life or Fuck off himself.

It's old, and he's too old to be behaving like this.

Past behavior predicts future behavior and his track record for the last 15 plus years has sucked.

You know the part in Fast Times at Ridgemont high when Mark Ratner tells Damone something to the effect of "People always bag on you, and say Damone's a creep, he's this, he's that, and I say, "No, no you just don't know Damone. Well, I'm starting to think that they knew you better than I did, and they were right."

That's where I'm at with this.

This isn't just, "He's Axl he does what he wants, he plays by his own rules, he's uncompromising".

This is he's a bitch, and people don't like it.

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