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DCK
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Re: Pms

DCK wrote:

Bad stuff those hormones...

My wife sometimes work shifts for my mother at a local school. As a weeks holiday is coming up for my wife and her college schedules, she was asked by my mother if she could work any that specific week. My wife said yes, and my mother took it as a sign she could sign her up for some shifts. She asked like..last Saturday. My mother calls her today and tells her about the shifts she got, Tuesday and Thursday. In the meantime however, my wife got an important writing task from college. She's not going to college for lectures, but she still has a task to do. She then can't take both shifts which puts my mother in a bad spot as she had worked out the schedules and now needs to re-do and so on. After she got off the phone with my mother, I told my wife that once committed to a job, even if the days were not finalized until today (the week in question is next week) it's not ideal to back out of previously arrangements with work, no matter if they were a tad vague. Of course, the college task is very important.

So I basically told her to take notice of this, and make sure it didn't happen again.

She went raving mad. Oh my. Raving mad I say. Maaad.

Neemo
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Re: Pms

Neemo wrote:

yikes....never put your wife and mother at odds with each other....back slowly out of the room then run for your life!

Neemo
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Neemo wrote:

and for gods sake always take your wife's side...even if she's wrong...especially since its vs your mom 18

DCK
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Re: Pms

DCK wrote:

Oh must def, but I actually took a work-approach as I'm dealing with stuff like this every day. Don't back out of work commitments unless you're about to die. big_smile

Axlin16
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Re: Pms

Axlin16 wrote:

Like Neemo said, never take your mother's side over your wife. NEVER.


15 years from now in an argument, she'll bring it up as an example of you not loving her enough.

DCK
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Re: Pms

DCK wrote:

LOL, but seriously I did not! My mother didn't think much of it at all, in fact, I did as this is my job.

Neemo
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Re: Pms

Neemo wrote:

well if your ma didnt make a stink of it then you keep quiet 16

well you are mcguyver...you can fix it 16

just bustin your balls DCK big_smile 19

buzzsaw
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Re: Pms

buzzsaw wrote:

I've been with my wife for 12 years and I tell her when she fucks up.  She sure tells me when I do, so I'm all for being fair.

Aussie
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Aussie wrote:

DCK I'm with you, if you make a comittment to someone then you keep it.  I was taught that from a young age with some tough lessons.  It works the same if you are invited somewhere, if you accept you go, even if a better offer came along after you had already accepted.  Generally you should still go as you made the commitment.

Axlin16
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Re: Pms

Axlin16 wrote:
buzzsaw wrote:

I've been with my wife for 12 years and I tell her when she fucks up.  She sure tells me when I do, so I'm all for being fair.

I wish I had a wife like that. That give and take is pretty cool, and all i've ever really asked of women.

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