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Re: dating games... f-ing stupid
Ok so why do people pull this shit anyways? Whats' the appeal?
So I've been seeing this girl for just over a month. It's clear to me, and everyone that we're like a pubic hair away from being in a relationship. Yet on Sunday at the beach with me and a few of her friends her friends start pumpin' the tires of this guy named Adam to her. Telling her how hot he is and how he's single and they wanna introduce her to him. I'm thinking like 'What the fuck? I'M RIGHT HERE!!" Then outta now where Jen starts asking questions about him and the one girl pulls up a picture on her iphone and Jen's like yeah I should meet him. None of them blinked an eye or acted in any way shape or form that they were busting my balls. All three seemed dead serious. I acted like I was paying it no mind but inside I was thinking this was fucked.
Now I'm wondering if she's told her friends we're just friends(which if we are its the best friendship ever haha!) or if that was all some stupid game to make me jealous and try harder. Either way it turned me off.
If it's a game I fucking hate it. If I'm misreading the situation I'm an idiot(along with my freinds who think it's obvious she's into me).
Anyways it's one little situation that bugged me but It made me think about stupid dating games and why people play them. Do people really get off on that shit. I mean it's so stupid. Everyone says they don't want games yet it seems everyone I've ever dated seemed to excell at being a fucking retard when it comes to it.
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Re: dating games... f-ing stupid
WTF.
That's so crap dude.
So basicly either she's moved you into freind zone (don't get me started) or it's some retarded method to guage your interest in her by seeing if you crack the shits about it or not.
Either way sucks a lot.
Re: dating games... f-ing stupid
Ok so why do people pull this shit anyways? Whats' the appeal?
So I've been seeing this girl for just over a month. It's clear to me, and everyone that we're like a pubic hair away from being in a relationship.
So why didn't you make a move? Why didn't you ask her to be in a relationship?
Seriously, you can't expect the girl to be the man in a relationship.
Then outta now where Jen starts asking questions about him and the one girl pulls up a picture on her iphone and Jen's like yeah I should meet him. None of them blinked an eye or acted in any way shape or form that they were busting my balls. All three seemed dead serious. I acted like I was paying it no mind but inside I was thinking this was fucked.
They're trying to make you jump. The real question here is, whether or not you want to go out with a woman who would happily manipulate you to get what she wants.
Now I'm wondering if she's told her friends we're just friends(which if we are its the best friendship ever haha!) or if that was all some stupid game to make me jealous and try harder. Either way it turned me off.
It's a game
If it's a game I fucking hate it. If I'm misreading the situation I'm an idiot(along with my freinds who think it's obvious she's into me).
Its a game. They wouldn't have done it if you'd made a move and asked her to be yours. Either way, if shes the type of girl that does that?... Well you deserve better, even if you do like U2
Anyways it's one little situation that bugged me but It made me think about stupid dating games and why people play them. Do people really get off on that shit. I mean it's so stupid. Everyone says they don't want games yet it seems everyone I've ever dated seemed to excell at being a fucking retard when it comes to it.
Don't date retards
Re: dating games... f-ing stupid
Ok so why do people pull this shit anyways? Whats' the appeal?
So I've been seeing this girl for just over a month. It's clear to me, and everyone that we're like a pubic hair away from being in a relationship. Yet on Sunday at the beach with me and a few of her friends her friends start pumpin' the tires of this guy named Adam to her. Telling her how hot he is and how he's single and they wanna introduce her to him. I'm thinking like 'What the fuck? I'M RIGHT HERE!!" Then outta now where Jen starts asking questions about him and the one girl pulls up a picture on her iphone and Jen's like yeah I should meet him. None of them blinked an eye or acted in any way shape or form that they were busting my balls. All three seemed dead serious. I acted like I was paying it no mind but inside I was thinking this was fucked.
Now I'm wondering if she's told her friends we're just friends(which if we are its the best friendship ever haha!) or if that was all some stupid game to make me jealous and try harder. Either way it turned me off.
If it's a game I fucking hate it. If I'm misreading the situation I'm an idiot(along with my freinds who think it's obvious she's into me).
Anyways it's one little situation that bugged me but It made me think about stupid dating games and why people play them. Do people really get off on that shit. I mean it's so stupid. Everyone says they don't want games yet it seems everyone I've ever dated seemed to excell at being a fucking retard when it comes to it.
I think they DO get off on it.
I was seriously trying to date this girl. We had been to a few parties, did some dancing, general cuddling and fondling and I seriously thought I had a good chance at her.
One night, I'm at her place, party going on, people all around and suddenly one girl start talking about her two friends, and that she's bringing them over. She says "so, who wanna make out with them!" and the one I'm interested in, jumps up and says "I do, I do!!"
That seriously fucked with MY head, just like this shit fucked with YOUR head. Especially when I know I would never do such a thing, joke or not, if someone I knew was interested in me, regardles of my feelings towards them. It's simply not classy, and a sign of bad social skills and empathy.
Re: dating games... f-ing stupid
I was seriously trying to date this girl. We had been to a few parties, did some dancing, general cuddling and fondling and I seriously thought I had a good chance at her.
One night, I'm at her place, party going on, people all around and suddenly one girl start talking about her two friends, and that she's bringing them over. She says "so, who wanna make out with them!" and the one I'm interested in, jumps up and says "I do, I do!!"
That seriously fucked with MY head, just like this shit fucked with YOUR head. Especially when I know I would never do such a thing, joke or not, if someone I knew was interested in me, regardles of my feelings towards them. It's simply not classy, and a sign of bad social skills and empathy.
I bet you only met this girl "out" and not during the day for a "date"
Re: dating games... f-ing stupid
DCK wrote:I was seriously trying to date this girl. We had been to a few parties, did some dancing, general cuddling and fondling and I seriously thought I had a good chance at her.
One night, I'm at her place, party going on, people all around and suddenly one girl start talking about her two friends, and that she's bringing them over. She says "so, who wanna make out with them!" and the one I'm interested in, jumps up and says "I do, I do!!"
That seriously fucked with MY head, just like this shit fucked with YOUR head. Especially when I know I would never do such a thing, joke or not, if someone I knew was interested in me, regardles of my feelings towards them. It's simply not classy, and a sign of bad social skills and empathy.
I bet you only met this girl "out" and not during the day for a "date"
During the day I worked.
We had several meet-ups, both at parties were she invited me specially, or other places.
